7 Things that you can Control that will make a BIG Difference in your Life
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What you see and believe about your world
If you believe people are good, then you will find the good in people.
If you believe it’s possible, then you will find possibilities.
If you believe you can do what you set out to do, you will see a way.
If you believe in love and compassion, you will find love and compassion
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The mindset and meaning you choose to give to everything in life.
Positive people live happier lives than negative people
You are in control of your mindset
Shifting this can change everything
Choose to see the magic in the mess.
Choose to see the power you developed from your pain.
Choose to see the strength you gained from your struggles.
Choose to see the light at the end of the tunnel.
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The amount of kindness and compassion you give to yourself and others
When you give kindness and compassion, the universe returns with interest
Giving kindness and compassion to others not only lifts them but it lifts you too.
Choose kindness over the need to be right.
If you want more love, give more love
If you want more kindness, be kinder
If you want a better friend, then be a better friend
You will attract back to you what you give out.
If you want a better co-worker, then be a better co-worker
If you want better communication, then be a better communicator
If you want to be closer to someone, then try to share more and allow yourself to be closer to them
Regardless of what others do, be kind
And watch others around you start to change
It’s easy to be kind to those who are being kind to us
But the real challenge is to be kind to those who aren’t
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Put in the Effort to improve yourself
You must put in the work if you want the results
You are always in control of the amount and quality of work and effort you put into improving yourself
You are always in control of your own self-development and growth
You must be growing in order to expand your mind and soul
You must be growing and learning in order to improve your life
You must be growing and learning to become strong enough to handle obstacles and challenges with more ease
Commit to self-growth
Anything that makes you feel better
Anything that makes you stronger, wiser and more powerful
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You are in charge of your level of gratitude
There’s no better way to improve your day or your life than to have gratitude for what you do have
What is great in your life right now?
What can you appreciate today?
Spend a lot of time on gratitude. All successful people have learned the importance of gratitude!
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Choose to be in the present moment
Most people live almost exclusively in their head
Stuck in an endless cycle of worry and anxiety about the future
Stuck in an endless cycle of regret about the past
Stuck in an endless cycle of thoughts that don’t offer real value to their life.
Be one of the few who lives in the present moment.
Enjoy the little things.
Leave your phones and devices behind more often and enjoy who you are with and what you are doing without all those distractions.
Get out of your head—out of the past or the future and be in the NOW.
It’s the happiest place to be!
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Choose who you surround yourself with
Are you around people who give you energy or people who drain your energy?
Choose to be around people who give you energy, who lift you up, who get you, and that allow you to be you.
